For today’s Emerald City Pet Rescue blog I thought an interesting and hopefully helpful subject to touch on for those of you who are contemplating the idea of possibly fostering a dog or dogs and for you wonderful fosters out there, what would we do without you. Your patience, your dedication, your blood, sweat and tears. Literally!
Okay, so you have made the utterly selfless decision to be a committed foster Mom or Dad for a rescue group or for a shelter, whatever the case may be, you are or are thinking of becoming a foster parent.
Now we all need to remember, and most of you reading this who are experienced fosters know that these animals generally come from very harsh circumstances that were of no fault of their own.
As most of our Emerald City Pet Rescue animals come from the very high kill shelters or possibly a home where they experienced neglect or any bad situation. I could go on and on as to the horrors in rescue, but I won’t.
So, hopefully as we do at Emerald City Pet Rescue, your new foster has been vetted or isolated for a period at a vet’s office prior to you bringing the foster pet in contact with any of your other pets. If you have no other pets then the case may be different, but most of us do.
Day one…the ‘excitement’! Here comes my new foster dog (we will reference dogs in today’s blog). You have gotten everything ready for him or her and you are going to have a great time caring for this poor little soul that needs your tender loving care.
He or she enters your home and….
The introduction to your other pets may NOT go as planned…maybe the ‘new kid’ starts humping all of your dogs, marking your furniture, growling, etc.
You say to yourself, OMG what have I gotten myself into? This dog is a MANIAC!
Well, stay calm, you are NOT alone. The first night is always rough. Dogs have pack mentalities and like with human children will test you to test what and where their boundaries stand.
Help! The dogs aren’t getting along! Calm down, the dogs unless of course we are dealing with dog aggressive behavior, and in that case the dog should be fostered in a one pet only home to begin with. But in today’s blog we are not referencing dog aggression, just normal dog ‘stuff’. And if you panic, the dogs actually do sense your energy and pick up on it which is called transverse aggression, so stay calm, and fake it even if you aren’t calm.
I fostered dogs for 10 years, and although I don’t foster anymore I am the doggie therapist for those midnight 911 calls from our wonderful foster parents to ‘talk them through the madness’.
I always say, give it 4 days. Every time I brought a new one home to the ‘pack’ it was usually insane, generally speaking. The first night I got no sleep, I watched them like a hawk to observe the new foster’s behavior and how my other dogs reacted to him or her.
But guess what, dogs figure it out. We need to maintain with them that WE are the alpha dog, not them. And they will all figure it out through our gentle guidance of telling them NO and praising them for good behavior. Watch over them like a mother dog to see if you can figure out the communications between the new kid and the existing kids. Don’t let the new kid come in and ‘run the show’ no matter how much you feel sorry for him or her, but don’t let the other dogs pick on him or her either. Sounds easier said than done, I know but it can be done.
A large crate is also good for the first night, so that the new dog feels safe and everyone has a chance to sniff him or her out.
The time will pass quickly and all of a sudden your little ‘maniac’ is turning into a normal dog.
This is why the foster parent is so cherished in the rescue community. This is where your hard work pays off. It’s not just the place you provided but it’s helping the dog remember what it’s like to be a dog again.
Teaching them love, trust, that you will not abandon them, you will feed them, praise them, you love them.
No one ever said fostering was easy. But I can tell you, it is one of the most rewarding things I have ever done in my 45 years on this planet. Seeing a dog come in so abused, neglected, unsure, scared, and see them blossom into a ‘normal dog’ with trust, a sparkle in their eye and then yes, when that perfect forever home comes, it is bittersweet but that is when you know your job is done.
Today’s blog is dedicated to all of you foster parents out there. God bless you and thank you for your selflessness and dedication.
And it’s okay to get frustrated once and awhile, too.
ECPR 2014

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